Dear Admin,I am 23 years old and I am still a virgin, I’ve dated four guys since I came to the university. The first guy broke up with me for no reason, so did the other three. When we started dating, I told them I am a virgin that I wanted to remain so until marriage, and they said they didn’t mind, that the love was all that matters. But later, they felt I could be cajoled into having s*x not knowing I was really serious. Now I’m in my finals, its hard to still remain a virgin, most especially in this era where s*x is a normal thing. I’m ashamed to even tell my friends that I’ve not had s*x, because they will never believe me and they’d laugh at me. I’m confused, I’ve been heart broken so many times, please I need advice . I don’t know if I am strong enough to go on. Hello dearie,
I am so proud of you… Its a good thing to keep your virtue and the best part of you should be kept for someone who truly deserves you….and that is your husband….on your wedding night.
Don’t be fooled, you would still have been heartbroken if you had give in to their s*xual demands. You should be glad that among the ‘rare few’ that are still upright. I strongly advise you to continue to uphold your value and virtue, never look down on yourself, you are the best ever and a good man would go length just to be your man. Continue to say NO TO s*x till you are married.
Wish you well,
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keep your inner strength that is your best, virtue. a real man that is really into you is going to accept you and going to respect that. stay strong don't give in you're on the right track. besides I wouldn't it be a shame if you gave up after holding out all this time. that's the problem with young girls today they're not strong like you and confident in who they are and they think sex is the only way to achieve that. trust me there's a lot of women out there that would love to have been able to last as long as you good girl. don't give in.
ReplyDeleteBeing a virgin is a special thing. you have all the time to experience that with someone who loves you and respect u as a young woman. get the education and someone will find u and won't only have sex on their mind. they'll respect your decision and walk with you till that time is right.
ReplyDeleteKeep it up dear it a good it hurt when u lose it to some who dnt loveu like i did some month ago
ReplyDeleteUnbelievable wot a great being really i respect nd admire ur kind cos is very rear t find pls dont give up cos he who laugh@last laughs better be strong .TO BE REAL WIT U,UR SO POWERFUL SPIRITUALY AS U ARE NOW WOT EVER U AS GOD ALMIGTY HE MUST SURELY I SAID SURELY DO IT 4U. Ur a HERO but u know nt. Rid on dont let go until u find d rightful one dat deserves it my dear be strong.
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